You are welcome. To me, the only type of woman that every made me take notice is the type with backbone. In bed, the gift of submission is so much more of a gift when the person does not give themselves to anyone else in any other fashion in their lives than when they do so on their own terms.
Pushovers, whether they are men or women, are just a sad bunch to witness. Some may see my version of the ‘alpha sub’ as different that what they interpret; I really don’t care.
I see it as a strong woman who is submissive and aggressive in her submission, plain and simple. Some see it as Fem Dom. Some see the word of ‘alpha’ in general as a taboo word because they read some lame article; I had one of these asshats yammering on via anon asks a couple weeks back.
Regardless, I think strong women make the world go around. I know my life has been shaped by them more than any other type of person, easily. Boys run and men take notice; that’s probably the easiest way to find out what type of guy you are dealing with.